I’m in the process of revising my WIP. It’s like pulling
teeth. There is the constant ‘I suck at this’ feeling in my head. I no longer
do battle with it. Being a writer means we’ve got to accept that we’re going to
feel like we suck pretty much every time we begin a first draft or first
revision.
Then again, acceptance doesn’t mean that we sit on our
backsides and twiddle our thumbs. Being a writer also means that we are students
our whole lives. Knowing this I created a writer’s tool box for myself. For a
long time, it held the essentials: write every day, find a critique group, find
beta readers, know your genre and so on. It held specific tips: don’t use
adverbs, add rhythm to scenes and don’t start with the weather.
Over the past year, I’ve felt that these technical tools
though important, are not sufficient. Yes, we need to know how to write but we
also need to be happy writing, need to continue writing and need to thrive on
our writing. So I’ve added other tools to my box. Tools that I think every
writer needs yet something that changes from writer to writer. They are not so
much technical tools of writing as much as psychological ‘soft’ tools. These
soft tools mold us into the writers we become.
1. Sleep on it: This has become my favorite tool. Whether a
short afternoon nap or turning off my screen because I’m unable to find the
right plot angle or plot words at night for a seven hour snooze, sleeping on it
has helped me be kind to my writing, my body and allowed me to return to my
manuscript the next day or next weekend with fresh perspective.
2. Know when to quit: We aren’t quitters. Quitters are those
who stop at a first draft, we tell ourselves. Still, I have many first drafts
languishing in my folders. I learned a lot of from them. I learned how to
write. How to create plot. How to bring out voice. How to add pacing. I also
learned that the manuscript was not strong enough to continue to work on. I learned
from mistakes and learned the right attitude so that I could work on my next
manuscript. In essence, I learned how to quit and move forward.
3. Imagination reboot. When I’m stuck I try to become my
characters when I can. I play act. I talk in my characters’ voices in the
kitchen making breakfast or while driving to work. Sometimes I indulge in a
book or movie that has a similar or polar opposite character. Other times, I simply
close my manuscript and go for some yoga in the park or a walk around the neighborhood.
Anything that gets my imagination flowing again works for me.
What works for you? What skills have you added to your tool
box?
Great thoughts, especially the sleeping on it. Giving yourself a break can REALLY help make you see things in a fresh new way.
ReplyDeleteThanks Lisa! I agree. In fact, putting it to practice now :)
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